WOW! How can I do it all?

I have to put this disclaimer on this, I am venting!

I remember when I worked outside the home a 5 minute delay out the door to work really messed up my day.

Now me and the kiddos have a semi-routine. It is flexible to a point but having daddy home for the morning (he had a late shift at work) it was nice to have him home but it really threw a wrench in things. It threw my cleaning schedule off and pumpkin1 doesn't seem to like to do our 'routine' when Daddy is home. We then had lunch and nap time like always. She decided not to nap, as usual.

As She woke up from her nap she apperently got into my makeup and got it all over her bed.  we cleaned it up, washed linens, and put the bed back together. I talked with her about getting into things, of course a 3 year old has no concept of things and forgets things 5 minutes later.

Fast forward to an almost burnt dinner. We then get ready for bed. Pumpkin2 is hungry so I feed him and Pumpkin1 is in bed. I check in on her and there are baby wipes and hair product all over her and the bed. We clean that up, talk again, back to bed. Not even 10 minutes later I catch her with cortizone cream that I keep in her brother's room for his skin. I am livid!!!!

So, at this point I have her on the couch with me. I'm sure she thinks it is a reward but honestly I am tired of cleaning up her mess and really where did my good little girl go?  Why does she not understand that she can get hurt if she gets into the wrong thing?

I am now on the verge of tears, and now have a crying baby and a little girl that is super smart that I have to toddler proof for her, and not to mention my house is a wreck.

I guess I have to get back to the grind stone.